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Read through the most famous quotes by topic #hips
Our life stories are largely constructed and without mindfulness can prove destructive. ↗
#behaviour #belief-systems #child-development #conditioning #education-system
Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not 'smash their mommy' and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle. ↗
#equality #love #men #power #relationships
The moment you put someone on a pedestal they will look down upon you. The trick is respecting each other equally. ↗
And you can't have two stars in one relationship. Somebody has to be willing to be the wagon...at lease some of the time ↗
In a culture of diversity, one group is likely not "just like everyone else." To deny that we have different needs, concerns, thought processes, worldview, is to refuse to look at the reason we are supposedly an identifiable community. ↗
They shared a laugh, and then the silence that so often intruded on their discussion asserted itself once again, a gap born of equal parts weariness, familiarity and--conversely--the many differences that fate had created between those who had once gone about lives that were but variations on a single melody. ↗
