Understand that it is often unwise to forgive face to face. This tends to make the other person feel 'put down' and make you look holier-than-thou.

Stanley also served two one-year terms as president of the Southern Baptist Convention from 1984 to 1986. Stanley has an evangelical fundamentalistdispensationalist theology. Charles Frazier Stanley (born September 25 1932) is the senior pastor of First Baptist Church a megachurch in northern Atlanta Georgia.