You don’t know how lucky you are, my dear. Don’t waste it with regrets of the places and people you have lost. You have a lifetime to fill, so many good times and good years and great people ahead of you. You must rush to meet it.

Traina subsequently adopted Steel's son Nick and gave him his family name. While still married to Lazard Steel met Danny Zugelder while interviewing an inmate in a prison near Lompoc California where Zugelder was also incarcerated. They divorced in March 1981.

Based in California for most of her career Steel has produced several books a year often juggling up to five projects at once. Her formula is fairly consistent often involving rich families facing a crisis threatened by dark elements such as jail fraud blackmail and suicide.